Struggling to Find Love? Here's Why I'm Still Single

Struggling to Find Love? Here's Why I'm Still Single

Being single can be great and awful at the same time. Yeah, it's awesome to have time to yourself to figure out who you are and make your own decisions. It would also be nice to have someone to go through life with, but it needs to be the right person. I haven't found that person yet and here's a few reasons why.1. I'm shy. woman covering mouth with sweater Photo by JJ Jordan on Unsplash It's a little difficult to be in a relationship with a gu…

Picture: ShutterstockDear people ... I'm a man and in the middle of 30. I'm not an absolute overflyer, but I'm already very stable on the road. Privately I do sports, have a great, diverse circle of friends, great parents etc. But let's get to the point. I'm single and that's actually okay. I always had something with women, even some longer relationships. So I'm not an Incel or anything, everything is good. I'm just very skeptical nowadays, whe…

Sorry, I’m an Anti-Romantic - The Medium

With my first year of university coming to an end and assignments piling up, romance is the last thing on my mind. Maybe that’s just me, though. Right now, I am not in the emotional or social space to start dating. So much of our understanding of maturity and initiation into adulthood is centered around the notion of dating. Dating itself also prompts sexual exploration. While this may be fair, it leaves sex-disinterested people like me out of t…