Dear Abby: Tensions between mom, lesbian daughter have stretched the distance between them
- A parent has not shared holidays with their grown daughter Charly for 12 years since she left the state after coming out as a lesbian.
- The distance widened because the parent was not very accepting of Charly’s coming out and the daughter and her partner set conditions for visits involving sharing the same bed.
- The parent once stayed with Charly and her partner, who slept in the same bed, but now the daughter refuses to invite the parent back due to discomfort about having guests.
- The parent recently began a relationship with a gentle, loving man named Grayson, with whom they have talked about marriage, though advice suggests a long engagement to ensure Grayson’s character.
- The situation implies ongoing tension requiring civility among all parties, with a suggestion that staying in a hotel during visits might improve comfort for everyone involved.
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Dear Abby: I wasn’t accepting of my lesbian daughter, and now she won’t visit
DEAR ABBY: I haven’t had a holiday with my grown daughter, “Charly,” since she left the state 12 years ago. When she came out as a lesbian, I wasn’t very accepting and didn’t handle it well. I have since apologized. Charly and her partner refuse to visit here unless I allow them to share the same bed in my house. I say they can’t tell me what to do in my own home, just as I can’t tell them what to do in theirs. I stayed with them once, and they…
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