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Asking Eric: Angry nephew forbids aunt from seeing her dying sister
The family later lifted the restriction and kept vigil, but eight days after her death the nephew still had not arranged cremation, the aunt said.
Upon arriving at the hospital following her sister's catastrophic medical event, an aunt discovered her 33-year-old nephew had placed a "block" on the patient's chart, forbidding family visitation unless he was present.
Hostility between the parties stems from long-standing falsehoods, including claims that the aunt refused to assist with college tuition, despite the sister previously raising the nephew using state welfare support.
Eight days after the sister's death, the aunt discovered the nephew had failed to arrange cremation and instructed hospital staff to refuse communication regarding the disposition of the body.
Columnist R. Eric Thomas advised the aunt that attempting to "settle old scores" or correct the record regarding these lies will likely prove ineffective.
Writing a letter expressing openness to a future relationship serves as a healthier alternative for the aunt than forcing a confrontation, according to Thomas's guidance.