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Dear Abby: I Showed up Early to Watch My Grandkids, and Now Daughter Won’t Have Us over at All

Grandparents’ early arrival caused the daughter to arrange alternate childcare, ending babysitting requests amid possible postpartum stress, a syndicated columnist noted.

  • About three months ago the adult daughter asked her parents not to come early, but the grandparents arrived about 10 minutes early and said `I didn’t realize we were early`.
  • Before the new baby arrived, the grandparents regularly babysat after the daughter asked for occasional help, including overnight stays before the delivery three months ago.
  • The grandparents recall handing over food and belongings to the older children at the daughter's home before leaving early, and they note their habitual lateness, insisting `While I was early, I really don’t see how it was such a big deal`.
  • Now the grandparents report the daughter declines invitations and hasn’t asked them to babysit, while family talks ended with the daughter denying wrongdoing and accusing them of `gaslighting`.
  • Given the recent birth three months ago, the column flagged possible coping issues as Dear Abby suggested the daughter may face emotional problems or hormone imbalance and advised asking the son-in-law for insight.
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Dear Abby: Daughter is suspiciously specific about when I should show up to watch my grandkids

What's going on with her?

·Syracuse, United States
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EARLY ARRIVAL SETS OFF A SILENT FEUD

FROM ANDREWS MCMEEL SYNDICATION

·Cherokee County, United States
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Early arrival sets of a silent feud

DEAR ABBY: Our adult daughter has children we adore. She asked if we could help out by watching them for a few hours occasionally, and we jumped at that. We had done this regularly before the delivery of the newest…

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Charleston Gazette-Mail broke the news in Charleston, United States on Tuesday, December 2, 2025.
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